"So what happens now?"

May 3, 2008 at 10:06 PM
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Here's a little gem of advice that everyone knows but I was too stupid to listen to: Never beg him to take you back. Especially if you get a little lonely and don't really mean it. 'Cause not only will those million little pieces of your heart break into a million more when he says no... you'll wake up the next day so frickin' (I'm being polite, obviously. Public group and all that) embarrassed all you want to do is bang your head against the wall until you damage the part of your brain that controls memory. To add insult to that very traumatic injury, you've puffed up his ego. Now he tells you "I don't think we should meet until you're really over me."

I'M OVER YOU, YOU TWIT!!! (again, being polite) I JUST HAD A TEMPORARY LAPSE OF REASON!!!

Bah.

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I totally can relate to this. I had this same thing happen to me a couple of weeks ago. But he just strung me along for a few days saying "we'll see". Finally by the third or fourth day of being strung along, I lost it. I mean seriously, I just went off on him. Sometimes a girl has to do what a girl has to do. And to tell you the truth I feel SO much better after doing that. I told him the truth and he's not to use to hearing that much. I was just finished being Ms. Niceguy.

Yup. Niceness is only worth spending on people who know how to give it back. I'm sorry he strung you along. That wasn't fair at all. But we'll learn from this and never let it happen again. K? Well... maybe you'll learn from it and never let it happen again. I still got plenty of stupid left in me. Hope it doesn't happen with the next guy.

Hey there... was just browsing and was surprised that this group finally got updated!
Anyways, I guess I should still feel better that he never replied to any of my text messages and emails... He said he needed a "time out" and never heard from him since then. I'm still trying to be "ms niceguy" 'coz I'm still waiting for him to make the offensive move of telling me "back off".... Stupid, eh? It's just so hard trying to move on...

Serena replied to brattinella23’s comment:
May 9, 2008
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Hey brattinella... It is very hard getting over someone. I was with this guy (the one I was yelling at) for four years and I've known him for fourteen. I didn't understand how, after everything we'd been through, he could just fall out of it, but he did. But (and I wouldn't be saying this, if I hadn't experienced it myself) time does heal a lot of those wounds and one day you'll just wake up and realize that you don't love him anymore and you don't hate him anymore either and all is right with the world. I use 'stupid' in my context 'cause I didn't really want him back when I made my wild pleas.

*hugs* well, I know somehow I'm somehow doing better than I was over a month ago... But I still do love him and I know I want him back... Though now, I'm not sure if I want him back because I love him or because I just got stuck to that idea... because now, someone is making me smile, giving me something to look forward to... he's beginning to my "special someone"; but how could this be possible if I know I'm still inlove with my ex?

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